I want to get my life together. At least one aspect of it. Where should I start?

First you always need to believe in yourself. Sometimes we work in situations that are not representing us in our best light but this far from means you are incapable of success or achievements. For example if you ask for the benefits, a set salary, the three weeks vacation but forget to ask for a nice boss and get a boss that is unappreciative and over loads you with work do you think that it is your fault and you are not good enough or do you realize that the expectations placed on you are not realistic and super woman herself would fall behind and loose desire to please in this work environment too? Yes she would, so at the end of the day you are doing better than anyone else with a nice boss as you take on the challenge and still accomplish what is physical possible while at the same time having negative energy around you at work everyday. Remember to live in the moment take on each task and only one task, do what you need to in that moment and if you do not have enough time finish each moment it is what it is... Remember to ALWAYS Believe in your self, it makes finding a job much easier.