How do I get my dad to treat me better...?

you need to tell your mom this, and friends or not what he's doing to you and saying to you is verbally abusive and physically abusive and sexually abusive. he's also an alcoholic from what it sounds like, i've seen this happen to friends, he's one step away from beating you for saying the wrong thing or sexually assaulting you in a drunken fit. You can tell yourself it won't happen but it will my suggestion is leave move in with your mom for about a month make sure your horses are registered with you and you have whatever paper work you need to prove it, if he sells them sue him, if he neglects them, call the animal police or the aspca. but if you choose to stay with him keep in mind if you are outdoors it's considered public conversation so you can record it with out him knowing it and it's legal and admissible in court. also you can stop cleaning up after him keep doing your chores but let it be known you aren't his maid your his daughter and let him know that he's the worst father ont he planet. and a decent father wouldn't treat a daughter like this and next time he makes a comment about his drinking being the only reason ur alive tell him and the only reason you are still alive is because i have to be 18 to own a gun. don't EVER let anyone treat you like this if you do you it'll seem normal to you and when you meet a guy you will think it's ok to be treated like this and it isn't and if you can keep your mom on the phone when he starts to act like this and tell her to listen you are going to pretend like you aren't on the phone with anyone and when he starts it up you have a witness or get on the phone with a friend immediatly witnesses are always great. If you let this go it will escalate to him beating you assaulting you possibley raping you and killing you. do NOT take this THIS IS ABUSE BOTH VERBAL MENTAL AND SEXUAL. if you have to kiddo, go to womens shelter they will help with legal help getting to and from school, keeping you safe and if he tries to find you or suddenly don't show up you can instruct them to call the police because something probably happened. it's ok it's not your fault it's his you didn't do ANYTHING wrong he did. he's a bad father and a bad person.